The Most Common Mistakes Young People Make

I lied, stole from my parents, cheated, scammed, humiliated others and laughed, threw rocks at people with the intent to kill. All by the time I was 10 years old. Later it got much worse. Later I actually thought I was smart. This is the great thing about being young: you’re so arrogant and stupid…

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The Secret to Doing What You Love

“I came to LA because I write films,” the Uber driver told me. “I wrote a movie about kids in a ghetto, trying to survive.” We were going just a few blocks. I was lazy and didn’t feel like walking. “So far I had a meeting at CAA, do you know who they are?” he…

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How to Come Up With Business Ideas to Test

I was depressed. And I had about four months before I was dead (meaning: I would run out of money). The idea muscle is like any other: it atrophies without use. Mine had atrophied. Every morning I would leave for “work” (I was unemployed and unemployable at that moment) and go to a cafe. I’d…

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Using the 5/25 Rule to Learn to Say ‘No’

When I was 12 I was obsessed with a book on my parents’ shelf. “Don’t Say Yes When You Want to Say No”. A pop psychology book from the 70’s all about sex. I would pretend to be sick. Stay home from school. Read the book over and over again, fascinated by the stories. Too…

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The Power of Loneliness

Everyone loves the David Bowie hit, “Starman.” “There’s a starman waiting in the sky, he’d like to come and meet us but he thinks he’d blow our minds.” Only…the song is not about a star man. It’s about the loneliness of two boys. The song starts with a boy late at night listening to the…

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I Have No Confidence… So This Is What I Do

I am nervous all the time. Going to a party, I always try to back out at last minute. Even a party I threw last year, I tried to not go and three people had to call me and convince me to come. Business deal – I am scared right before every meeting and will…

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Do You Follow the Law of Magnetism?

Here’s a little lesson on the law of magnetism: Harrison Ford was a carpenter before he was the biggest star in the universe. George Lucas needed carpentry work on a door in the studio. Harrison Ford knew Fred Roos who was working for Lucas. Ford had briefly known Lucas because he played a small role…

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The Ten Commandments of Con Men

I told her I would never write about her again. The first time I wrote about her was in 2009. I met her in a bookstore and she was drawing and I was attracted to her. I asked her what she was drawing. She told me her whole story. And then a week later I…

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I Doubted Everything In My Life… Here’s What Happened

Someone wrote on Quora: “I want to benefit all of humanity as much as possible. But how can I get over all the doubts I have?” My response: You’re going to totally fail. Your doubts are completely correct. I’m not saying this in some reverse psychology way. You’re not a teenager (if you were – I…

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