Why You Must Not Wait

Waiting for something to happen in your business just plain sucks. Sometimes you’re waiting to hear back from a prospect or a vendor — sometimes you’re waiting on a payment from a client or a customer. At other times, you’re waiting on someone to do something that they said they were going to do. I’ve…

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The Chop Wood Carry Water Method For Getting Clients

You’ve probably heard the saying about “before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water – after enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.” That’s what I do in my business. I chop wood, I carry water. Today, I’d like to tell you the story of how that came about and why it’s become such a valuable business building tool…

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Why You Can Never “Get” Expert Status In Your Marketplace

Most of the assets “expert advisors” seek out in the marketplace aren’t really items that can be “gotten.” Take, for example, trust, credibility, authority, and expert status. These things aren’t treasures to be seized. These treasure are gifts that must be given to you. So let’s say you want to achieve expert status in your…

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Why You Should Give Up Trying to Get Clients

In just a few moments, you’ll understand why you should “give up” trying to get clients. The secret is to make a shift from focusing on outcomes to focusing on process. Please read that again, because you really want that to sink in. It’s completely the opposite of what we’ve all been trained to do…

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What To Do If You Hate “Selling Yourself”

I really never had what it takes to succeed inside a corporation of any size. Just like when I was working as a church musician, I had two fundamental flaws: I couldn’t help speaking my mind. I got really angry at jerks in positions of power. The worst part was, I’d sometimes do both of those things…

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Building the Business of Your Dreams

I still remember the book that forever “ruined” me from being able to live as an employee. It was Cashflow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki. Sitting there in the bookstore in Knoxville, Tennessee that day, getting extremely excited reading all about a way of life completely foreign to my own is something I will never forget. My IQ…

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The Secret to Instant Attraction

I’ve never been a very polarizing person. Actually, for most of my life, my goal was to be anything but polarizing. Growing up as a child and into early adulthood, there’s no way I could have taken the heat that being polarizing creates. I was allergic to conflict and would do anything to avoid it.…

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Working With Clients Like a Ninja

Almost two years ago, I started martial arts training—a mixture of Eskrima, Pangamot, Pencak Silat. During the first few weeks of training, it became clear to me that there were several things about this art that were completely counter-intuitive. When you have no idea how to fight (I didn’t), your natural reaction to someone coming…

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A Letter to My Kids

Dear Kids, I’m taking the time to write this to you today, years before there’s a chance that you’ll ever read it. One of my reasons for doing this is simply because I want to affirm some things that I see you doing and some of the ways you are being before you forget them.…

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