I Tried to Quit But It’s Too Hard!

You might have uttered these defeated words before, “I tried to quit but it’s too hard!” I did many times when I tried to quit smoking. And when I tried giving up meat, cheese, sugar, and more. Quitting something can seem – and is – often incredibly hard, so much so that we don’t even…

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Habit Mastery: Creating the New Normal

Changing habits, at its core, is simply a process of changing what’s normal for you. This is something I’ve done myself many times over the last decade. Here’s just a sample of the new normal I’ve achieved in my life: Not smoking became my new normal (lots of pain for a month or so) Running…

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Why You Should Write Daily

One of the most instrumental changes in my life has been writing every single day. For many years I was a writer who didn’t write that regularly. It was always on the back of my mind to write, but I didn’t find the time. Then I started my blog in January 2007, and have written…

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How to Change Your Life: A User’s Guide

Let’s start with a simple statement: what do you want to be? Are you hoping to someday be a writer, a musician, a designer, a programmer, a polyglot, a carpenter, a manga artist, an entrepreneur, or an expert at anything? How do you get there? Do you write your intention on a piece of paper,…

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Getting Others to Accept Your Changes

It is a curious phenomena that when we try to change our habits — simplify our clutter, eat healthier, start exercising — the other people in our life don’t instantly want to be changed in the same way. It’s as if they had their own minds! Horrible as that might sound, it’s the reality we…

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A Powerful Habit

The biggest reason people fail at creating and sticking to new habits is that they don’t keep doing it. That seems obvious: if you don’t keep doing a habit, it won’t really become a habit. So what’s the solution to this obvious problem? Find a way to keep doing it. When you look at it…

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Why You Already Have Enough

Have you said thank you to someone to show how grateful you are for them today? It’s such a small thing, but it can have a huge impact on your life, and the life of that person. Find little ways to incorporate gratitude in your life, and you’ll be much happier … and you’ll make…

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Time Saving Secrets for Busy People

Your lives are always busy, I’m sure, but the holidays always seem to add even more craziness to everyone’s schedule. Christmas parties with family, friends and co-workers, gift shopping, decorating, Christmas pageants, caroling, bell-ringing, snow shoveling (unless you live on Guam like I do), making cookies, baking turkeys, and all the rest. It’s enough to…

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How to Change Your Life with Thanksgiving

It’s amazing how one simple, easy, positive action can change so much in a person’s life. One of the things that has had the biggest effect on my life is the realization of the power of gratitude. Simply giving thanks. It has affected everything. It has made me a more positive person. A more productive…

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5 Principles of a Profound Workday

Let us toss out all we know for a moment. Toss notions of productivity, time management, efficiency, and the bottom line. Empty our workdays of all we’ve packed them with, and sit still with an empty room. What should we put in this room? Do we want to spend our limited space on busy-ness, on…

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