What to Do When You Lose Your Creative Mojo

All creative people get stuck now and then. Writers have writer’s block. Painters have painter’s block. Even marketers and CEOs will admit that they sometimes “haven’t got a clue.” And if your financial future depends on generating ideas, this can be downright scary. I used to have mornings when I’d sit down to write an…

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Time-Zone Trouble

Good sleep is essential for good health and personal productivity. But when you travel between time zones (as I often do), it is difficult to get. If jet travel knocks you out, here are some of the things I do that I’d recommend: Don’t drink alcohol on the plane. Eat light. And don’t watch TV…

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How to Enjoy the Benefits of Contrary Thinking

If you are (as I am) a contrary person, you may find yourself finding fault with every conventional idea you hear. When this becomes a habit, several good things will happen: You will develop an above-average ability to predict impending disaster. You will become skilled at solving problems. You will seldom be taken for a…

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It’s Time to Count Your Real Blessings

I opened this issue by looking at the little things to be thankful for today. Now, let’s get serious… Be thankful for your wealth. You haven’t hit the Forbes list. But you have enough money to put clothes on your back, a roof over your head, and food in your stomach. “The Pilgrims made seven…

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10 Little Things I’m Thankful For

It’s Thanksgiving. So let’s be thankful. Later in this issue, we’ll talk about the big things to be grateful for. But let’s start with some little things. These are 10 of mine: 1. Padron Aniversarios — simply the best cigar in the world. I prefer the naturals, which are medium-bodied. They have a superb taste.…

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A Good Day to Write a Thank You Letter

Being the day before Thanksgiving, I have a 30-minute “task” for you that will make you feel good and bring you many future blessings. Step One: Take out five sheets of paper. Nice stationery, if you have it. Step Two: Think about the people in your life who help you. And not just in the…

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Make Your Praise More Powerful

Your employees want to believe your praise is (a) valid and (b) sincere. That’s because they want to believe that (a) they deserve it and (b) it will ultimately result in some positive action from you. (Such as a raise.) Dish out the same praise routinely (“Good job!”), and your employees will start to wonder…

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Giving Thanks

Of the many execrable things that happen to you when you approach 60, the recognition of mortality is the worst. You can’t avoid it. People you know — even friends and family members — are seriously sick or dying. I see death is a hateful thief. I know he will steal life from me eventually,…

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The “Is It?” Closing Technique

You are trying to persuade someone to do something. He is resistant. You suspect it is because he has misgivings he prefers not to talk about. You don’t want to upset or offend him, but you do want to get his okay. What do you do? According to LL, a young colleague of mine who’s…

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What To Do When Your Boss Is Looking Over Your Shoulder

Second-guessers — bosses who delegate authority and then take some of it back — are a very odious sort. Most management books advise you to confront them. In some cases, that may be necessary. But in most cases I’ve witnessed, second-guessing is a response to a real problem. So before you accost your bossy boss…

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